This is the only picture I have of my parents together. It was taken in 1951 at Fort Collins, Colorado nine years before I was born. I love it because they look so happy. These were the first two people to form my web. They did their very best to nurture me. I am certain that when I came into their lives they were happy to have another baby in the house. My sister and brother were seven and six years older than me. I was named Katherine after my mothers grandmother.
This is a picture of my mom and my Grampa Chet O'Toole. I loved my Grampa very much and he loved me too. I always felt special to my Grampa. He was a storytelling Irishman and I learned much about crafting a story from him. He lived life in a very big way. If personality characteristics are genetic, then I feel like I inherited my spunk and the fine art of storytelling from him.
My sister, Janey was born eighteen months after me. She was a wonderful playmate throughout my childhood. We spent hours playing together and trying to steer clear of our mischievous older brother. Janey and I have a rich history rooted in childhood. As adults, we often recite poems or songs we made up as children. If I ever need to fill in the details of some fuzzy childhood memory, Janey is my first call. It is good to have someone in my life who has known me all my life.
I would complete my web with pictures of teachers who inspired me and nurtured me in so many wonderful ways. One in particular is my teacher and coach, Jim Whitney or "Whit". I credit getting through some very tough times to Whits commitment to my success in high school. He cared radically about me then and he continues to to this day. I have spent my adult life thanking him.